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Well, my baby is 8 weeks old today! It’s weird to measure his age because sometimes 8 weeks means 2 months, but it’s only the 7th and his birthday isn’t until the 13th.

Come to think of it, we are actually already in the calendar year of his first birthday. That’s pretty crazy to think about. Also, it will be 12/13/14. I should probably do a numbers theme. 

Okay enough about that. 

Here are my top 5 moments of the week!

1. This isn’t documented but I made Pioneer Woman’s Sugar Cookies yesterday. Have you ever made them? They are pretty incredible. The best sugar cookie I’ve ever had. They are lighter than air, and the perfect amount of crumbly. 

2. I’m still really good at darts. I mentioned this last week and since then my husband and I are still playing as many nights as we can. I’m still beating him, although he did pick up a win last night. 

Anyway, I know this isn’t really interesting but you must know that I almost never win at anything around here. My husband is not only competitive and enjoys winning, but he happens to usually dominate in whatever we are doing.

In fact, my family takes an annual ski trip and the first time Justin came along I was so excited to finally be more advanced than him at something, especially a sport. He had only skied in North Carolina, which doesn’t really compare to skiing out west. 

So, we get on the slopes. The whole walk over to the chair lift I’m telling him how the day after my first day of skiing I was killin’ it on a black diamond. He was impressed. Maybe even a little intimidated, I don’t know. 

We ride the lift to the top of the mountain. I graciously decided to start his lesson on a green run, the easiest run of all. I explain what “pizza” is and tell him he needs to take it slow. I even motion to a nearby train of tiny 3 year olds skiing with their instructor.

“See what the babies are doing? You should do that. This is a very hard skill to learn. . .”

He gives me a nod, and then takes off down the mountain in front of me.

I watch him from behind, just waiting for him to wipe out, and sure enough he doesn’t. We get to the bottom of the mountain and I’m just plain disgusted. How could he possibly be so dang good at something he tries for just about the first time that I’ve been doing for years?

It’s just in his blood I guess. 

I gather my pride that had blown off me as I tried to catch him flying down the mountain and realize that this is just how my life is going to be. He’s just going to be better at sports. 

Fast forward to now, 5 years from that fateful day on the mountain, and I’m finally back in first place. It feels good. 



3.  The sweetest photographer in history came over this week and shot some photos of David and me. There is a long story regarding a different photographer that I cannot explain at the moment, but I hope to be able to soon. 

Nonetheless, Jordan captured some really sweet moments of David and I together, and got some great shots of David by himself. She and I clicked immediately, and I can’t wait to see the rest of the photos! 
4. David has become quite the spit up king, which I know is totally normal. So, he wears bibs pretty much all the time.

One time we had our friend Chris over and he wanted to hold David. It had been over an hour since his last feeding, and he had already burped plenty and even spit up some.

So, Justin hands David to Chris and says, “You probably don’t need a burp cloth, he won’t spit up.”

No more than 2 minutes passed after David had settled in on Chris’ lap, and an eruption of white spilled from his mouth. Because of Murphy’s Law, the spit up landed all over Chris’ jeans. Poor guy.

Justin and I were cracking up about it, but I’m sure Chris didn’t think it was as funny. Either way, he took it like a champ, and we gave him a burp cloth next time.

So, I had a gift card to Pottery Barn Kids and saw these cute little bibs (currently on sale for $22.99 down from $29.50). They cost a pretty penny for bibs, but hey–that’s what gift cards are made for right?

Of course, I fell in love with them and now they are my favorite. I wash them constantly. It’s the perfect size, tightness around his neck, and absorbs even a huge amount of spit up. 

5. Lastly, a bit of housekeeping: 

I find myself thinking about this blog often. 

Not in a bad way, more like a “I wish I had more time” kind of way. 

I took a few weeks off after David was born, but perhaps I should have taken a few more?

I liked having something to work on while he napped, so I was anxious to get back into it! 

While he’s still generally an easy baby, I’m learning there are great days and there are challenging ones. And the challenging ones mean I don’t have a lot of time to spend on the blog. 

My husband and I have talked about a few options to give me a little bit more uninterrupted time to work and we’re figuring that out. 

I’ve struggled with the balance of beauty + personal posts (personal ones being stories about David, etc). I can’t deny that I’m a mom, but I don’t want this place to become purely a “mom blog”. Sure, I may have a different definition of “mom blog” than you do, but I hope you get what I’m saying. 

So, I’m going to try something. I’m making Wednesday’s baby post days. And that’s particularly funny to me because one of David’s nicknames is Wednesday. Aaaaand now is as good as a time as ever to explain that one.

So my dad’s nickname is Tuesday because an old boyfriend of my sister once called him Ricky Ticky Tuesday (based off the book Tikki Tikki Tembo) and eventually we dropped the “ricky ticky” and just called him Tuesday. My husband may have initiated the partial “dropping”of the nickname, but I can’t remember. 

So, David looks a little bit like my dad in some aspects, so we jokingly call him Wednesday from time to time. Everyone in my family gets a good laugh out of it. 

So, back to Wednesdays. Wednesdays are going to be baby days. If I have a particularly funny story, or something I’m dying to share on another day, I may. But my goal will be to keep it to one day a week for now.

The rest of the week will be the same typical content.

So we’ll see how this goes! I’m learning to be flexible and just take the days one at a time. This has been such a major life change, in the best of ways, and it’s natural for that to ripple into other areas of my life. 

I’ve received a few emails from disappointed readers who do not like the new direction of my blog, and that is completely understandable. So, if you are looking for a purely beauty blog to read, these are a few of my favorites:

Maskcara

The Beauty Department

312 Beauty

Essie Button

Vivianna Does Makeup

I do hope you’ll stick around. The part that makes blogging so much fun is interacting with you, the reader. I appreciate you taking the time to check in, when you do. 

Have a wonderful weekend! 
(oh and in case you didn’t know, this whole high five for friday thing started here)

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Abby says · 02.07.14

The picture of you and David is beyond sweet! You are a beautiful momma!
I will have to print out the Pioneer Woman recipe because I have yet to find a good sugar cookie recipe after years of searching. Maybe this will be “the one”.
I hope you have a great weekend!

xo Always, Abby

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Mrs. Schaaf says · 02.07.14

I really love the new direction of your blog. I think it makes it more than a superficial topic. And it is inspirational to see other moms going through struggles and pulling it together. I think as moms we need to support each other- and sometimes that means when you have a child, things change and evolve. As they are supposed to. Life after children is beautiful chaos and sharing that is good and worthy.

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Heather says · 02.07.14

I think you are divine and just read the whole “husband is a natural at sports” to my husband…I will follow you for LIFE! (That was totally junior high, huh?)

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Jass says · 02.07.14

I love your blog and as a new mom to be i completely understand the change in your life and blog. I love to read your mommy experiences, so keep them coming. I would also love to see your post maternity outfits.

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Lauren Elizabeth says · 02.07.14

lurvels.

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Ashley says · 02.07.14

Just wanted to say, you rock! My husband is the same as yours. He’s naturally good at EVERYTHING so when I get a win, which almost never happens, it must be celebrated. My “baby” is almost 4 and I’ll be honest, I do miss more beauty type blogs but guess what? That’s my problem, not yours. I come to your blog just as often as I used to and will continue to do so. I enjoy your baby updates not only because David is a doll, but because it reminds me when my 3 were that little. So keep doing what you’re doing! 🙂

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Keebee16 says · 02.07.14

I think you’re blog is still a lovely balance. I like the blog because it’s human and close and relate able. If someone doesn’t like that and only want reviews on hair color or lipstick then I’m sure they could find a more suitable place. When I read the blog I can still find great reviews, great tips, still figure out how to style my hair with you’re videos and laugh as a mother. You’re doing a great job!!

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jackie says · 02.07.14

I love your blog and have been following for a while now. I have to admit that now I look forward to your baby posts more than your beauty posts:) But both are fabulous, keep on what you’re doing, I think it’s great!!

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Rachael says · 02.07.14

I started following you on Instagram- I forget how I found you, then recently checked out your blog. I love it! I got a hair cut similar to yours back in October after I got married. I have pretty fine, limp hair and after just a few weeks of reading your blog I’ve already picked up so many valuable tips on how to style it right. That’s not the only reason I love your blog, but I just wanted to thank you for that anyway. I don’t see the problem with you including your son on the blog, everything changes when you become a Mom- plus he’s adorable! I don’t think your blog content has changed that drastically either. I will definitely be sticking around 🙂

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Andrea says · 02.07.14

I love reading about your life. I feel like we have become friends over the last year. That’s not weird is it? No ones life is completely filled with one topic. Our lives aren’t definable like that, so write about what you want, and I will read every single post because that’s what friends are for 😉

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Victoria Sanders says · 02.07.14

I am also enjoying the new direction of the blog. I am a first time mom as well; my little girl just turned 6 months old. It is nice to see that I’m not alone in the ‘struggle’. I enjoy all of your posts, and am often envious of how ‘together’ you seem to have everything. If your readers are truly your friends, they will understand and enjoy the shift of focus.

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Becky Boor says · 02.07.14

Happy Friday! I love your blog. As a fellow mom I like your mix of beauty and baby :-). I always get excited when you have a new blog post no matter what it is. I love it when bloggers share a little of their personal lives. It makes them more real to me, someone I can relate with. Have a great weekend.

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Taleen Cassidy says · 02.07.14

Ditto to all of the above!

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hkschulte says · 02.07.14

Yup! I love the direction of your blog too. I love seeing pictures of David & reading mommy stories. Make sure you keep writing what you want to be writing!!

Also, I totally get you on the winning thing. I can sometimes beat my husband at Madden on playstation & it makes me feel like I’m the greatest football player ever!

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blah blah says · 02.07.14

I agree with the others. I’m actually newer to your blog and love the combination of beauty and personal posts. I also think you’re doing great at actually keeping up with your blog. I had my first baby in August and I’m just now getting my time management down!

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Suzzy says · 02.07.14

I have been following your blog for so long I can’t even remember when or how I found you. I’m not big on posting, but I wanted to agree with what everyone else is saying, I love the direction your blog is taking! I’ve followed your journey from giving us hair videos to sharing with us that incredibly intimate post about your difficulty conceiving to that wonderful blog letting us all know ya’ll were going to be parents. It’s inevitable that your blog would evolve with you. I’m excited to continue to follow and see how your journey continues 🙂 Keep up the amazing work!!

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Elisabeth Adkins says · 02.07.14

I’m not a mom (yet) but I still enjoy reading your blog posts – even the ones about David! It’s great to hear peoples stories so I am better prepared for when I do eventually marry and have children. I’m sorry people have sent you negative emails – they should be much more understanding of the fact that you’re a new mom and are still adjusting and are obviously sharing things you’re excited about. Don’t worry though – you’ll have readers who will stick around no matter what!

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cjf says · 02.07.14

I agree! I am not a mom yet either, (so I hope you know that non-moms still love you too!) but I know the day will come, and it’s nice to get a little glimpse into the future (plus, like everyone else, I think that David is precious!). I started following initially for the hair & beauty tips but I enjoy getting little windows into your day to day as well – it makes the blog feel much more personal and relatable. I do appreciate that you don’t intend for the blog to give fully over to diapers and couponing, but it sounds like most of us enjoy the mix that you have going on. Thanks for all the inspiration!

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Kate Healy says · 02.07.14

I have been loving your baby posts and would love to see more than one a week. I’m due with my first child in 5 weeks and seeing the pictures of David completely melts my heart and gets me so excited for my little one to arrive! Best wishes to you and your family!

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Catherine Ray says · 02.07.14

While I look forward to your beauty posts, I also enjoy your baby posts. I think the Wednesday idea is great! That way we can still hear about beauty, fashion and lifestyle posts but we can also keep up with your precious family. I know it probably sounds crazy but we feel like we know you since we read your blog daily. It’s nice to see that baby grow. I think you’ve come up with a perfect solution.

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RadMrs says · 02.07.14

Kate, I love your blog. I love reading about the changes in your life. I feel like you’re a friend, even though we’ve never met. Your beauty posts are great, but it’s your personal posts with your life stories that I really love. I’m sad that other readers would actually complain that you’d feel comfortable enough to share your joy about David with us here. I’m not a mom and I don’t plan on becoming one, but I really do love reading about your journey with your husband and David. I think it’s a beautiful thing and it’s been such a natural evolution of your blog. You’re doing a fabulous job! 🙂

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Megan McMeans says · 02.07.14

I think you’re doing a great job of balancing so far. You’re allowed to be excited about your baby! It’s natural to want to talk about him. Your world shifts when you become a mother. If some readers can’t understand that, too bad for them. I’ll definitely keep reading!

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Diana says · 02.07.14

I love the changes in your blog, whether it is a long baby post, a hair or makeup tutorial, or a quick note that life happened. It makes you real! Life isn’t all fluff and fancy and even though you don’t share those dark corners we all have it is real life. The Internet often glosses over real. The Lord changes our seasons and I love that you share this new chapter!

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Kara K says · 02.07.14

Poo poo on the people who have been critical of your mom posts.
In regards to your unfavorable photography experience, that’s too bad. We are just breaking up with a daycare provider who has also given us a bad experience. I want to protect other people too, but am having a hard time in knowing the best way to share a review of my experience. What thought process have you gone through to come to your decision in how you will be sharing?

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Mia Purdin says · 02.07.14

I love reading your baby posts! I think it would be odd if you didn’t include your new life as a mom in your posting- it would feel inauthentic and strange. I hope you didn’t let the criticism get to you- I don’t think you will ever lack for faithful readers! Keep it up mama! 🙂

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Tanya says · 02.07.14

I love your blog – both beauty and baby posts! Keep up the good work and have a good weekend! 🙂

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Just Hannah says · 02.07.14

I loved your Blog before and I still love it now with added baby-ness. I don’t have children myself and probs wont for a good few years but I love reading your little stories baby related stories, its what’s makes your blog you!

You seem a lovely down to earth person! I love all your post especially your hair tutorials they really are the best I have ever watched!

Keep doing what your doing and ignore the people that have been critical!

Just Hannah xxx

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Laurie says · 02.07.14

Oh my gosh, that picture is precious! What a sweet little baby you have:) Thanks for the link, lady! xo

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Corley May says · 02.07.14

I’ve struggled with the same thing on my blog – I don’t want to become another “mommy blogger,” but I am a mommy now! I say just do you, mama – your blog is a reflection of your life, that’s why we read it, and now you’ve got another wonderful thing to write about.

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Tiffany says · 02.07.14

I love the new direction of your blog. You’re a real person and I like to hear about what’s going on. David IS what’s going on in your life right now so obviously you would talk the most about that right now. I appreciate those types of posts (particularly as I try to remember what’s it’s like with a newborn and what I need with #2 due next month!). When you can also post other content, I like to hear about that as well. I’ll take it all.

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Gretchen Beasley says · 02.07.14

I would venture to guess that a great many of your readers are moms too, or are planning to be in the nearish future. My two cents worth would be that a mixture of a beauty and a mom blog is just what we need! How to still feel beautiful after having a baby. I wouldn’t try to separate the two. I want to know what you do with David while you do your hair, paint your nails, etc. I think there are plenty of other purely beauty blogs out there. I read yours because you’re real and I can relate to you. When I have my baby in a few months, I need to know that I won’t be in spit-up covered sweats with greasy hair every day. I need to know it’s ok to take time to take care of myself too.

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Emily says · 02.07.14

As a new mom (my son was born in October) I love the new direction of your blog!

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marisa says · 02.07.14

Whatever girl! Do what you want! I totally relate to your story about darts. My husband is really good at everything too, I always try to keep up but always fall short. BUT cornhole is apparently my game. He usually loves to have me on his team for almost anything but if we aren’t a team in cornhole, forget it. I try not to rub it in his face! 😉

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Ashley says · 02.07.14

I can’t even win at that! He pretty much gets the bag in the hole on every attempt. It’s sick. 🙂

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Rachel Dominico says · 02.07.14

I love your blog, both before you became a mom and now! Part of what’s great about finding a blog you love to read, is that you develop a relationship (well sort of) with the blogger. I like reading your blog because it’s like checking in with a friend, who happens to know a lot about hair and makeup. And when something amazing happens to your friend, such as having a baby, you want to hear all about it! Keep doing what you’re doing!!!

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corinne casali says · 02.07.14

Your blog, regardless of content past and present, is totally refreshing and inspiring at the same time. You have a very unique and natural way of connecting with people. It’s very uplifting whether you are blogging about hair makeup or especially your family. I look forward to reading it all the time, when I get a chance, it lifts my spirits and I even get a few tips… bonus! 🙂

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Laura Harring says · 02.07.14

I absolutely love the new spin you’ve taken with your blog. It makes you seem so much more real and “human!” I don’t know about everyone else, but you’re a gorgeous woman, with the perfect house, the perfect husband, perfect baby, perfect job, perfect hair and perfect makeup. Every. Single. Day. Hearing about being exhausted with a newborn, or not having time for everything just reminds us that you’re human just like the rest of us, and it’s awesome connecting with you that way, too. So as much as I love reading, and re-reading the beauty blogs, I love the David stories every bit as much. Keep them coming. 🙂 Happy Friday!!

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Jessica @ One Crafty Cupcake says · 02.07.14

I’ve had a few blogs where they have a baby and it becomes just about babies and kids and milestones and week by week pictures… I am not planning on having kids any time soon so of course I lost interest. I think you’re doing a good job of balancing the content. I am actually interested in your reviews of baby gear because so many of my friends are starting to have babies so it’s great to have gift ideas. I still can’t believe people would email someone to say they don’t like what you’re writing about.

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Jessica says · 02.07.14

Beautiful pictures of you and David. I love the direction of your blog–life as a mom is a mix of babies, beauty, life, etc. so it’s wonderful to see your take on it all; always refreshing and uplifting.

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Andrea Hatch says · 02.07.14

I love your blog and I LOVE the direction of your new blog!
We are about the same age and are in the same stages in life. For me you have been a great encouragement on a daily basis-it maybe about your marriage, life or your spiritual walk with Christ. Which by the way, I LOVE that you are so open about your faith on this blog. I love your whit & humor!! My husband and I AND my sister and her husband are preparing for our first little ones around our homes and you would not believe how much of a help you have been with all the information you have giving through out your pregnancy and now.
I started following your blog for hair and now have become a faithful reader!!
You keep talking about that sweet little boy, I love hearing about your journey as a mother.
Keep it up girl, I check your blog EVERY DAY and will continue to do so (no matter what direction) for all the tips you have!!!

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Rachel says · 02.07.14

Kate, you are wonderful and refreshing! Whether you’re talking about David or you’re talking about beauty, I love reading your perspective on things. You are always honest and real. It might take a bit of time for you to find your new stride, but that’s okay! In the mean time, your blog is still great and I enjoy hanging out here.

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Mary Schaubert says · 02.07.14

I LOVE the new direction of your blog. Of course, I’m pregnant and due in June, so I identify – but I also think your being a new mom will totally help me out with your posts in the future – hopefully they’ll be more the type of stuff that is doable for a busy mom! As far as I’m concerned, keep it up : )

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Heather says · 02.07.14

Your life has totally changed. Of course your blog is going to change!! To me, blogging is all about personal experience. That’s why people do or don’t like blogs. They can relate to the blogger. If folks don’t like the new direction, they can read elsewhere. I love reading about your new little bundle and still love reading about the beauty content. I’m amazed that you’ve found any free time in these early days. I was so tired and drained, there wasn’t much I could do but nurse and take care of my baby girl. So keep up what you’re doing and don’t be hard on yourself! You’ll find a balance that works in time.

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kristinwithani says · 02.07.14

#5 My favorite. Kate, you seem to know yourself better than anyone I know. You and Justin know what’s best for your family. I’ve actually love the new “direction” (intentional or not) and pace. I know advertisers love daily posts but I love it when bloggers don’t post every day. It’s like a fun surprise in my reader.

#4 I’m 42 years old and my mother still talks about what a “spitty uppy” baby I was. Awesome.

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Morgan S. says · 02.07.14

Oh our husbands sound so alike…I had pretty much the same experience when I took him snowboarding for the first time. LOL. He’s a lot more fearless than me. http://www.styleoyster.blogspot.com

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Delana Dennis says · 02.07.14

I personally enjoy your blog immensely! It’s a weekly routine to catch up and read what all you have to say. The material that you post is very relateable and it feels like I’m reading a girlfriends blog. Thank you for keeping up with the blog with the new life.

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Esther says · 02.07.14

Kate, I am so enjoying your blog lately. In fact, I’ve been downright impressed with how much you maintained the content and kept it similar to before David was born.
As you said, his arrival was a major life change, and the ripple effect is totally natural, as now he is one of the most important things in your life. I (and many other readers, I’m sure) feel that we’re “friends”, and I love to hear from you about whatever you feel like writing about. It’s the style of your writing (and speaking in the videos), rather that the content that I enjoy most about this little space 🙂

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Aimee says · 02.07.14

Kate, Sorry to hear you received those emails. I love following along on the “journey” of the blogger, where ever life takes you. I think you are doing a great job, and I look forward to getting to hear whats happening with David as well as your other beauty and fashion posts. Hope you have a good weekend! – Aimee

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Elyse Rawlins says · 02.07.14

I am in the beauty industry and have a 5 month old, so like others have said it just makes you more REAL! MAYBE if David wasn’t so gosh darn adorable it would be different but thankfully we all get to enjoy his cute little self. Love reading your ‘wins’. And your ‘hard days’- gosh. TOTALLY relate. first time mom- check. first time working from home- check. working in beauty- check. Life is busy and beautiful. Your blog is the place I run to, when I have a moment or two, to have a little girl time or mom time. There are days when I don’t make it out of the house but need to feel not alone. The Small Things just does it. 🙂 I think we are all thankful for the time you put into this little (big) place. You are superwoman in my opinion to find the time to fit this in!

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adarlingadventure says · 02.07.14

I LOVE when you talk about David! And your family! And anything else! I can’t even remember what drew me to your blog a couple years ago, but I can say that while I watch every single tutorial – I haven’t tried a single one out. But I do read your blog daily (or every other day…when I have the time) and really love your writing style and your content. Whatever you post, I’ll read it. Just enjoy being the mom you are because if you feel torn between blogging and being a mom, mommy-ing will win and we would all miss you!

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Katie says · 02.07.14

I never comment. But wanted to say that I check your blog ALMOST daily and have been for a while. I am not a mom (can’t wait to be in the future, though). I think that besides liking ALL the content on your blog. What really keeps me and most other people coming back is… YOU. You are so sweet, down to earth, authentic, and I enjoy hearing your take on just about any topic. I do love kids and therefore LOVE the baby posts. Besides if you did not inculde that part of your life it would not be authentic and that would be a true disappointment. Keep doing what you’re doing, baby posts and all. Your “balance” is just fine. Not to mention it is natural and will continue to evolve as David grows, goes to school, and you have more time. No worries. Just be you! That’s what we all love!

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Leslie says · 02.07.14

I enjoy reading your posts whether they have been beauty or baby, so whatever schedule you decide on will be just fine with me! 🙂

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Andrea Worley says · 02.07.14

I love where you’re going with your blog, it’s been fun as a reader to see your progression. And isn’t that what life is about? moving into and out of phases, learning as we go. Writing, and sharing our experiences is what blogging is about. I say you go in the direction God leads and don’t worry about it. Your readers will stay. Being a new mom is tough and wonderful all wrapped into another. You’re totally not along, all of us mommies have been there a time or two 🙂

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shannon v. says · 02.07.14

Hello! I never comment on blogs, but since it appears that you are struggling a bit with the direction of your blog, I just wanted to say that I started reading your blog because of the mix of mommy material. I don’t “follow” blogs, but I read them daily. I used to read only fashion blogs, but now that I am a mom of a 4 week old, I find myself gravitating to those bloggers that used to be fashion/beauty bloggers and recently had babies because I like to see how other new mommies are doing and how they are incorporating style into their new role. So keep it up. I love the little man updates. Reading your posts helps me not feel alone in this journey (while simultaneously making me feel bad that I haven’t combed my hair in a week :)).

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Nichole says · 02.07.14

Just wanted to say that I’m not going anywhere :). Keep doing what makes you happy!

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Becky Youkstetter says · 02.07.14

It’s your blog! Write about whatever the hell you want girl!

Also you’ll reach a point where your life isn’t as consumed with baby. He’ll grow, you’ll grow, you’ll find time and a bit of yourself again. Just go with the flow.

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Megan Karabon says · 02.07.14

I love reading about David! But, then again, I’m a new mom myself. But, seriously, I would follow your blog regardless. Life happens. Things change. People need to remember that. I think it would be weird if you never mentioned your son in your posts. He’s a part of your life. Well, anyway. Just keep doing what you’re doing. And I’ll continue following 🙂

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Janelle Collins says · 02.07.14

Hi Kate! I’ve been following your blog for a while and love it! I became a first time mom in October to a little man and also quit my job to be at home. I just wanted to let you know that I know how much your life changes (in ways you could not foresee and imagine) and the flexibility you have to have from day to day (I struggle with that a lot and applaud you for even having time to write this blog still!)

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Janelle Collins says · 02.07.14

I will continue to follow your blog and can’t wait to hear more about David 🙂

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Elizabeth P says · 02.07.14

Keeping doing you, girl! If someone doesn’t want to read about the baby, they will move on. One of the things that draws me back to your blog is you, your personality and your life. Don’t over think it. David is a a part of who you are now. It’s all good!

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Laurie Malseed says · 02.07.14

In regards to not having as much time as you would like to spend on your blog– I used to tell myself one-post-at-a-time (and I’m new to blogging so it’s been hard getting it off the ground). Lately it’s been, one-key-stroke-at-a-time!! My humble beginnings… http://onemomandablog.blogspot.com/

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Coffeemomma says · 02.07.14

I just found your blog a few months ago, but I find it just delightful. I know everyone’s tastes are different, but I think whatever balance works for YOU on YOUR blog is just perfect. Have a great day! 🙂

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Michiko Matsuura says · 02.07.14

I’m not a mom and I personally don’t plan to become one. I’ve never commented on your posts before but I have followed your blog for well over a year now and I like your style. In my perspective it has always been a mix of the girly stuff and your personal life. It just so happens that now in your personal life you’re a mom and that is fine by me. Moms are women first, so it’s not like you have stopped being everything else that makes you you. So keep up the good work and don’t pay attention to the haters, from what I can see in these comments we all like your blog as is.

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Andrea says · 02.07.14

Ahh, somebody else who knows the Tikki Tikki Tembo book!! Sometimes I think I imagined it, because nobody outside of my sisters has EVER heard of it (I read it every time we went to the library!)

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Kaitlyn Botelho says · 02.07.14

Great post! I think seeing the balance of your new life should be educational to all the women out there reading. While they may not be at a point in their lives that reading about being a new mom is helpful, I think it should be inspiring for them to know that work and baby can exist together. Keep doing what you’re doing. I certainly appreciate the balance, if that means anything 🙂

Kate @ SunnyLikemyRainBoots.com

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Rebecca says · 02.07.14

I love your blog and have felt you have kept the balance really well since David’s birth. I, for one, enjoy your posts about your family just as much as your beauty posts. The thing is, this is your blog, you can do whatever you like with it. If you lose a few readers because your blog isn’t 100% beauty all the time, you most likely gain new readers who enjoy your family posts. Have a nice weekend!!

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Nicole Marica says · 02.07.14

I can understand why some readers may be upset with the change of content on your blog, however I personally enjoyed you allowing us a peek into your personal life. I think its wonderful that you acknowledge that some readers are only here for the beauty aspect and are trying to work with that. Just wanted to let you know I’ve been a reader for a few years and I don’t intend on going anywhere, I always enjoy the content that you post and I think you are someone to be admired. Thanks for being you!

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Jamie Smith says · 02.07.14

I struggle in my own small blog for sticking to topics of one kind or another. Then I kind of made peace with it…there are millions of opinions out there. I’m writing mine on lots of topics. Others are writing their stories. That’s it. Some days I’ll connect, and some days I’ll sound like an isolated alien. It’s part of how I’ve applied the baby lesson of “one day at a time”. Love your blog!!

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Sara says · 02.07.14

I’m fairly new to your blog, but have become quite attached to it in just a short time. I love the posts! And I enjoy hearing about the experiences with your new little one. You do a great job and I enjoy the mix of topics and of course the tutorials. Keep up the good work!! 🙂

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Laura Jane says · 02.07.14

I love all your personal posts and baby talk! I’m a full time blogger and shop owner and I’m expecting my first baby this summer. I love reading your experience as a first time mom and blogger. I’m sure it’s hard to find the right balance. I sometimes have a hard time fitting it all in without a baby – I can’t imagine how much more difficult it will be with a baby!

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Rebecca Norris says · 02.07.14

As a blogger I cannot believe (actually, I totally can,) that people would actually take the time out of their day to email and criticize you for writing about such a huge event. Sure, you normally cover beauty etc, but really, do they think you have as much time for that now? Incredibly shortsighted in my opinion as in a few months time I’m sure you’ll be right back into the swing of it (or whatever new direction your prefer.)

I just had to send a comment of support. I love the blog and I occasionally get emails of a similar nature or comments on my own blog, and I feel like pointing out that they don’t have to read if they don’t like it! I work full time and doing the blog (although I enjoy it, don’t get me wrong) takes time out of my day that I could spend on other things so when people complain it really winds me up! Enjoy your baby – we’re all enjoying reading about him! x

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Jo says · 02.07.14

I love hearing about the mama stuff and life with David! You do a great job of keeping content fun and fresh!

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Valerie says · 02.07.14

Re: your comments on your blog’s direction. My feelings would best be summed up by the wonderful Mr. Billy Joel: “I love you just the way you are.” 🙂 Happy weekend.

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bess barnes says · 02.07.14

Kate,
Hello from Kansas City! I find our lives to be so similar I guess that’s why I love your blog so much. I just had my first baby in October 2013, Rocky. I am also a hair stylist who decided to “retire” to stay at home. Having a baby is such a huge life change it would be absolutely nuts for you to not write about it, after all life is so much more precious than beauty and hair, right? I do love all things beauty/hair but when I look at my little boy I realize how much more fuller my life is. I love to hear about your experiences it makes you relatable to me. Please keep on doing what you are doing!
Love, Bess

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Jen says · 02.07.14

I’d just like to encourage you in your blog writing after baby since you mentioned it in #5. I love your blog and take your recommendations/suggestions like I would from a close friend:) I have been very impressed by your consistency and commitment to the blog since David arrived. You are doing a great job and have impressed this momma of two:)

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Christy says · 02.07.14

I love the new direction of your blog. I also love the picture of you and David. Sweet sweet memories!

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Stacey says · 02.07.14

I think that you have balanced personal and beauty perfectly. I love seeing your sweet baby and hear your stories. Maybe because i have four of my own?!? I have enjoyed your blog and will continue to do so! 🙂 Thanks

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Samantha says · 02.07.14

I am much more excited to read now that you are a mama! So it just goes to show you can’t please everyone. Write and post what you want, so many people love you because you are you. They would watch you sit and pet your cats all day long!

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Francis says · 02.07.14

Dear Kate,

I am sorry to hear that some of your readers are a bit disappointed about the new direction it’s taken, however in this very blog you did discuss your troubles conceiving and I am not sure why any of your readership should be surprised that you do blog about your newborn what comes along having a new infant- this shouldn’t be new to anyone who is reading your blog, and given that this is a beauty blog, etc., you do add personal tid bits about your life, and that is one of the reasons why I love your blog, because you blog about you the person., we, the readers get invited into your home and your life – we get to who you are! Even thought I personally do not have I still do enjoy your content.

Hope you have a great weekend!
-Francis

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Ashley says · 02.07.14

I completely adore the new direction that your blog has gone. I still feel like you post plenty of beauty and hair tips and tutorials. If readers respect you as a blogger, they should respect the fact that your life has changed. As a matter of fact: It has changed for a bigger and better reason…..cute little smiles and coos from baby David. Keep up the posts. You’re amazing!

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Katie says · 02.07.14

I have no problem with the direction of YOUR blog! Keep doing what you’re doing, Kate!

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sydnijackson says · 02.07.14

I love the new direction of your blog! Your life changed, so why shouldn’t your blog? I love reading about people’s lives, even if I don’t know them…hope that’s not creepy but it shouldn’t creep you out I hope since you’re the one sharing. 🙂 I feel ya about husbands beating you all the time. My hubby and I love strategy games like Settlers of Catan, and he alllllways wins them! He’s just so smart, I can’t outwit him. I love that he’s smart, but I do like finding something I’m better at than him. Like cooking. Hah!

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tarahersh says · 02.07.14

I think your blog is awesome – but that could be because I’m a momma to a boy under 2 and I used to be a hairstylist! I love the direction your blog is taking…but I suppose I am just one reader 🙂 Anyway – just wanted to give you some encouragement!

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Clark says · 02.07.14

Love your blog, past and present. Also, loving the referral to other beauty bloggers. Thank you for including us in your journey into motherhood.

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Sherry says · 02.07.14

I am still hooked, no matter what the content…..and I don’t have any children. I have always enjoyed your blog and continue to enjoy hearing and seeing content about David/Wednesday along with the usual beauty related content. Keep on writing.

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Jennifer McGeorge-Matkowski says · 02.07.14

Kate, I still enjoy the blog, it’s called “the small things blog” babies are small, therefore I don’t see why David shouldn’t be included! Then again I’m a fellow mom and I’m enjoying reading about your journey.

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Priya Ravindranath says · 02.07.14

Hi! Really like your blog…i started following your blog because of the baby updates. I am expecting my first baby daughter soon and I love your posts of baby essentials, strollers and others. So please keep posting baby related posts. I guess you win some and you lose some! 🙂

Priya

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Michele Dorsch says · 02.07.14

I’m not a mom (yet) either and I love your blog. I follow you on Instagram as well. I check both out every day and I love that you still make an effort to look great! I have heard so many stories about how new moms chop off their hair and quit wearing makeup once their child arrives. That is so not me! I hope to continue trying new hairstyles and beauty products regularly when I reach that stage of life. I also love how you balance outward beauty with the inward beauty. As a christian, it can be confusing, but you handle it with grace! Thanks for being an inspiration!

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Jennjilla says · 02.07.14

I like that you have incorporated more of your home life into your blog – you seem like a very nice person, and a lovely momma, so I’m cool with the way things are going, too! I have older children, so baby items aren’t #1 on my list of interests, but I DO have lots of friends having babies so I’ve had quite a few good present ideas come from your blog. So, that works. Also, I’ve learned all about hairdo’s, so I’m a happy camper! I can’t quite seem to pull any of them off very well, but that’s user error. 🙂

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Maria says · 02.07.14

You could create a “family” or “baby” tab on the top of your blog just like “style” or “beauty” and categorize them so people can find what they want. Also, I am loving the name of your blog even more now that you have a small little baby to care for. 🙂

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bonnieshee says · 02.07.14

I just wanted to voice my support. As a new mom, I’ve quite enjoyed your blog and the direction it’s taken. It’s never been exclusively beauty, so I’m not sure where the surprise is coming from. You do such a great job of making us feel like we’re chatting with a friend and because of that, so many of us are interested in David and your life as a mom. I for one want to keep on top of beauty and fashion even though I have a little person in my life that makes it so much harder. In that way, your blog has been such an encouragement for me the past couple of months. Chalk it up to not being able to please everyone and keep sharing your little corner of the world with us 🙂

When you said you would be a stay-at-home mom who also worked from home, I wondered if you quite knew what you were getting into with that. I truly think it’s harder than either staying at home (without a job) or working a full time job. Combining the two…I can’t imagine. Maybe find a sitter for a few hours a week and you can have a little time to sit at your desk and breathe! And I say that not because I want you to keep us happy, but because I know how taking care of a tiny baby can feel a little like drowning when those bad days hit. A little bit of a break can make all the difference in the world.

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Night Owl says · 02.07.14

he’s the cutest thing I’ve ever seen.

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nightowlventing02.blogspot.com
http://www.bloglovin.com/pinkowl07

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Laura Fairchild says · 02.07.14

I too am a new mommy. Being a new mommy I love to hear what other new mommies have to say. I check your blog daily and love every post. Keep it up 🙂

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Ashlee says · 02.07.14

As someone who has been down the motherhood path, I love reading about your journey. I came to this blog for the hair tutorials, but I stayed for everything else! I hope you find a balance that makes you happy! I keep hoping to see his cute face show up to say hi in a video. Thank you for continuing to blog and share your life with all of us!

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M Dee says · 02.07.14

I, too, came here for the hair tutorials and got hooked for so many other reasons!

Like some have said above, you have a way of making your readers feel connected with you. I don’t have any kids, but love hearing about your journey, since I hope to become a mom in the next few years (God willing 🙂 )…….I hope you don’t doubt yourself for a second because of some of the less-than-positive feedback that you have received.

Keep doing exactly what you’re doing – you have a gift with words and a beautiful life to share!

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Whitney says · 02.07.14

Love you and love pictures of your precious baby. It must take a lot to come up with a creative daily post about beauty, so if one day its about your life as a mom, so be it! Your blog has literally changed my life (I used to care little about doing my hair, makeup, nails) and thanks to your tutorials and product reviews, I’ve found the fun in experimenting…. thanks Kate!

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Angela says · 02.07.14

That makes me sad to hear that people are disappointed in the changes. I like that you are so personable on your blog. It makes me feel like you are my friend, my friend who is fabulous at hair and makeup. I actually don’t read any other hair and makeup blogs, i find them boring and repetitive, whereas your blog has SOUL.

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Katie Evans says · 02.07.14

I love your blog! It’s the only one that I have delivered to my inbox 🙂 And I’m not in the baby stage anymore. My babies are 10 and 7. Keep it up!! We enjoy seeing your life grow and the things you have to offer.
~katie e.

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Jennifer says · 02.07.14

Seriously? People are emailing you telling you THEY don’t like YOUR blog? The gaul of some people! I LOVE the new direction. Beauty and babies all in one! What could be better for fun, young moms like us?

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kmac says · 02.07.14

You are like a friend by now (almost). Anyway, I love your blog and won’t be going anywhere!

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cindy says · 02.07.14

I too am a mom of now “grown up children” so I have enjoyed reading about your experiences of being pregnant and now being a new mommy! I originally came to your blog for your hair tips and have enjoyed everything! I would expect nothing less from you than hearing about your new baby and all the wonderful things that brings! Keep doing what you’re doing-I enjoy seeing pictures of David (my dad and brother’s name!) I just found out I’m to be a Grandmother for the first time and I’m going to purchase the Origami Stroller for our new grand baby just tike the one you received! You always have new things to share!! Thanks for sharing a bit of your life with us!

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Unknown says · 02.07.14

I personally have been waiting for you to become a Mom (not trying to sounds like a creeper!) so that I can get some more “real-life” mom beauty tips. I love all of your tutorials and ideas but I don’t always have the time or money for products as a full-time working mom of a 3-year-old. Keep it all coming!! We are trying for #2 so I love all the baby stuff as well. 🙂

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AlYSSA* says · 02.07.14

I am so sad to hear that. I love your blog and actually look forward to posts about Mommyhood MORE than the beauty posts. I hope you continue to write about David/pregnancy/Mommyhood more frequently than once a week. Don’t be discouraged. I get your blog post delivered around 2:35pm everyday and look forward to my afternoons at work to catch up with you. My favorites ALWAYS are the ones about pregnancy and David (okay and the others, too!)

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Marisa (http://alovelyliving.com/) says · 02.07.14

I’m also a full-time mom and blogger on the side. I’ve followed you for a while and continue to love your blog even more (and your sisters!) the more I get to know you. Blogs evolve just as life does, it’s inevitable. Do what feels best for you. More than a few of us will be following 😉

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Neroli Fillingham says · 02.07.14

I’m new to your blog (just found it a few months ago) and I love the mix of baby and beauty. Life changes as family expands, this is all perfectly normal. Don’t try and change who you are, do/say/blog what feels right in the moment. We all struggle with others “expectations” but don’t let a few nay-sayers change the essence of what you would like to share with others. I’m quite sure there are still TONS of people who would read your blog even if you baby-blogged Everyday. It’s real life and it’s where you are RIGHT NOW. Be you : )

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Theresa says · 02.07.14

Kate I adore you new direction!!! I found you blog just over a year ago when my little bun was born 🙂 I was trying to work on becoming more fashionable and you were a huge inspiration. You even inspired me to start a blog! amominthemaking.com (which I have loved!) – However I must confess sometime your blog was a little more fashion that I could process. (the content was great I just could only implement so many things at once 🙂

Your new mix between fashion, hair, makeup, clothes and baby is the best! Looking forward to your post is the best part of my afternoon!! I’ve come to look forward to the time when you post 🙂

Now that you’ve had your son I’m an ever more faithful fan!!!

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Kristy Fleming says · 02.07.14

I love your blog and appreciate ALL the topics. Beauty routines changes when you become a mom. In fact, my routine probably suffered….. A LOT when I became a mom. So it’s a good reminder to work on balancing things and putting myself as a priority from time to time!!

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Holly Louise says · 02.07.14

I’m going to be real honest and say that I think I like your blog a little bit more now that you have incorporated David and being a Mom into your beauty blog! As a not yet Mom, I really enjoy hearing how you balance both parts of your life, and see the beauty products you continue to use – not just allowing yourself to morph into that greasy pony tail, no make-up and sweat pants Mom that I have a feeling I could very easily slide into being one day soon!! I find what you share interesting and motivating. I look forward to what you continue to share int he future!

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Amba - Reward Homes says · 02.07.14

Kate I think your doing a beautiful job with the blog, its a shame others arent able to embrace it for what it is, the excitement of being a first time mum. I love all that you write and look forward to seeing a new post pop up. Keep up the fabulous work 🙂

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Stacy Cockerham says · 02.07.14

This blog is about you and your life and David is a huge part of that now. I am saddened to hear people are not supportive of that. I love your blog and I love hearing stores and seeing sweet pictures of David. Thank you for choosing to share your life with us!

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valentinegirl says · 02.07.14

Although you may have had some negative comments about the direction of your blog–I love it. Your blog should be a reflection of YOU. You are now a MOM and yes, you still love beauty products, but your approach might be a little different now. If that’s not a good fit with some readers, I wouldn’t worry about it. There are plenty of us Moms who will love hearing about the mix of your beauty posts, style posts and yes–Mom posts. The other blogs I read are usually geared towards crafting and DIY, you are one of the only beauty bloggers that I follow. The thing that you have in common with other blogs that I gravitate towards is a mix of style and personality. I would just follow your heart on this one. Don’t get too caught up in what others think (really easy for me to say, right?!). Looking forward to Wednesdays!!

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Lynn says · 02.07.14

Just remember no matter what other people say, it’s the small things in life that matter the most! I’m currently not a mom yet but will hopefully soon be a foster/ adoptive mom, and I honestly have enjoyed your content! To tell you the truth I have read your blog daily since David has entered this world than before he was a “sparkle in your eye”. Thanks to you I pay more attention to my hair, wear makeup & nail polish more often than I ever used to! Wherever your blog takes you just be true to yourself and know you have a whole mess of loyal readers who are sure to follow!

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Birchwood Pie says · 02.07.14

Oh goodness. As someone who neither has nor wants kids, I love reading your blog everyday. You don’t need to change a thing!

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Ang says · 02.07.14

if you’re looking for unique bibs, check out my sister in laws etsy page! babiease. 🙂

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*Jess* says · 02.07.14

I love the tutorials and beauty tips but far more enjoy the personal “real life” stuff 🙂 I don’t see why you can’t share both when you have the time 🙂

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suzy supnet says · 02.07.14

I think it is great that people felt comfortable enough with you to be able to write and express their disappointment. You never said if they were negative so I am assuming they weren’t. I think it shows how approachable you are. And I commend those who were brave enough to write it.

I also think it benefits you. Although from the comments it seems like most support the direction your blog has gone in (I am one of them), if there are a few people who are disappointed, it could be part of a larger group who just have not expressed that. As a business, keeping customers is important. And although you can do whatever you want on your blog, I think if you were losing readers (which could result in lost revenue), you would want to know why. It might not change how you want to blog, but it is nice to know.

Not only that, but since you have expressed that you are trying to find what direction your blog will be going, hearing opinions on both sides may help you as you move forward. When I had my baby I thought I was going to be a mommy blogger, but it never felt right. I struggled for a while and then realized I just wanted to stick with food and nutrition.

Go with your gut, but don’t be afraid to change and modify as you grow into mommyhood.

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Giselle D says · 02.07.14

First time poster, long time reader of your blog. I replied to this comment because I have similar sentiments. I think the Wednesday idea is pragmatic: you can include David in your blog, but the beauty-focused readers can skip that day. I found your blog through a pinterest link to a hair tutorial video (p.s. I have had complete strangers ask me how I have done my hair, and I led them to your blog). I am not currently a mom, but hope to be in the future. I can relate to some of the readers feeling that the blog has gotten “mom” heavy, but have continued coming back. Like many of the other comments, I think it is your writing style/personality that keeps people coming back.

I think the vast majority of your readership is perfectly understanding of you not being able to blog everyday now that you have little one. I actually have been pleasantly surprised with how often you have posted. I would try to maintain both sides – beauty and baby. That way you can advertise for both : P In all seriousness, though, that way you can write about what matters and is important to you.

p.s. did you recently add a “blogher” pop-up (that has since been taken off)?

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Cassels_Kingdom says · 02.07.14

I’m a first time mom as well (my son is now 20 months & we are expecting our 2nd in June). I appreciate your honesty and completely relate to what you are going through with learning to juggle the new demands on your time. When I get a chance to read your blog, you tend to really brighten my day :0) Thanks for all you do with the blog – I know I will continue to enjoy it through all the changes.

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Toni says · 02.07.14

I just love reading your blog, no matter the content. I am a Mom, so I love reading about your baby. And, I also love it when you do hair tutorials. Keep up the great work!

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kaitlynschwendeman says · 02.07.14

So sorry some people aren’t loving the blog. I’ve loved seeing your beautiful son and hearing your experiences (I especially loved your C-Section story). I’m not a mom, but I feel like each time I read about your trials and joys with David I’m getting to know you better 🙂 The hair tutorials and beauty is wonderful, but that’s obviously not 100% who you are, and I love hearing about the other parts. I love your blog now and I’m sure I’ll keep loving it.

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Laura says · 02.07.14

I do not think David has taken over the blog, nor has your blog turned into a “mommy blog” (I don’t even know what’s wrong with a “mommy blog” anyway). Your blog is about you and your life and you’re going to share what’s going on in it, especially when it’s something that totally changes your life. I love all of your posts, the beauty, fashion, baby, whatever! You keep doing your thing, girl!

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Brittney Long Braddy says · 02.07.14

I love the fast that your blog is about you and your family! I find the personal posts even more interesting that the beauty posts!:)

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Amanda MacGregor says · 02.07.14

I honestly love your blog. I think the fact that it is more than beauty is a plus, you’re a real person with a real life and these days it’s refreshing for someone to actually share the truth about themselves. I am disappointed to learn some readers don’t like where your blog is going, it’s progression how can that be a bad thing? Please don’t alter yourself to what some people deem an ‘appropriate’ beauty blog, you’re incredible just as you are. It’s your honesty and realness that makes you a joy to follow.

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Evelyn says · 02.07.14

My humble opinion; this is not a beauty blog, it’s a small things blog. And given the person who writes it, I view it as about “small” things in a woman’s life. Therefore, there is plenty of room for baby, couple, beauty, and shopping talk.

I like the way it is now, but I may be biased since I also read some “mom” blogs.

That said, on way of dealing with it may be to vent more on David via Instagram ( we love the pics anyway) and write about it on the blog just once per week, as you are suggesting!

Best,

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Kathy Olson says · 02.07.14

I will stick around! I love all these baby posts! I miss having a baby in the house and I guess I always will. I love reading about him and seeing him on your blog.

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Jessica Lehman says · 02.07.14

Kate, you’re doing a great job balancing the content on this blog. I for one, haven’t felt it was too baby oriented at all. How could you not write about that sweet little face? If anything, the posts about home life offer another dimension to you that I think readers appreciate and enjoy 🙂

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Sara Stafford says · 02.07.14

Just wanted to say I love how your blog has developed an changed. I love reading about David and your experiences as a mom. So while some might not appreciate it, I’m sure others agree with me that others of us do love it.

And speaking of Pottery Barn Kids–go ahead and put on David’s birthday list an Oversized Anywhere Chair–go ahead and get the oversized–I know he’s tiny but my son (now almost 7–tear) got one for his first Christmas when he was only 8 months old we still use it on a REGULAR basis. My daughter has one–it’s just the regular size Anywhere chair and it’s not as cozy and comfy and big and nice. I mean seriously, I can sit in my son’s and be just fine. They make forts with them and flip them over and sit on top of them. It’s well worth the money!! 🙂

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Sally HP says · 02.08.14

I am a not-small person and I sit in my boys’ oversized chairs every night to read to them! I love them! The photograph is beautiful-that one alone would be worth the photo shoot! Love the blog direction, blogging is so personal that it would be impossible to not evolve as your life does

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Jennifer Flynn says · 02.07.14

I have recently started my own blog and you are part of the inspiration for it (more about that here: http://www.thefsoflife.blogspot.com/2014/01/no-pressurejust-my-first-post.html). Your blog is inspiring because it is always uplifting and helpful no matter the content; that’s what I wanted my blog to be for someone too. I had my first child 11 months ago and when times were tough and I was living on no sleep I looked forward to reading your blog. It gave me inspiration to put on make up, or do my hair, or just stay in my PJs all day. It’s tough being a new mom and figuring out how to balance everything in your life. What’s important is that you feel good about it. When you feel balanced and at peace then that is the key. Personally, I enjoy posts like today the most (and the one about the baby monitor, haha) ! Keep up the good work; I love reading your blog daily no matter the content. http://www.thefsoflife.blogspot.com

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Megan Harrison says · 02.07.14

I’m LOVING the direction of the blog. As a professional hairstylist and a mother, I relate to all your posts! Keep up the good work 🙂

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kribss says · 02.07.14

I really dislike hearing people telling other people how to run their blog. If you don’t like it then don’t read it! Or come back once a week and skip over material you don’t like. THIS IS YOUR BLOG- you are allowed to write whatever YOU want!!

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candi says · 02.07.14

Kate, Like many of the comments I read above, I found your blog thru Pinterest. After I watched the first hair tutorial video, I was hooked on your blog. I stop by every day to peek in & see what you are up to. It’s like having a long lost girlfriend & catching up every day. I very much enjoy your sense of humor, your sense of style, your helpful hints/tips, of course the hair tutorials especially since I have reached 40 & it seems like my hair won’t grow much past my shoulders any more. And like many have said above this is YOUR blog! It’s a place for you to speak your mind. Isn’t that the whole initial purpose of blogging?
Anyhow, keep up the good work! Both of my boys are grown & out of the house & it is always enjoyable to hear sweet stories from mom’s who enjoying their adventures with their angels

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Christine Lawson says · 02.07.14

I found your blog when searching how to style bangs a couple of weeks back. Since then I must have read every post. Do what you need to do but please don’t stop – you are a breath of fresh air and I look forward to your daily snippets. Enjoy your little man, he is too precious.

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Maria Wiseman says · 02.07.14

I’m only a highschooler but I still love reading about your new baby and also all the hair and beauty posts. Naturally you’re going to write about your baby!!! He’s probably one of the most exciting and life-changing things that has happened to you! Keep it up!!

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Jan C. says · 02.07.14

40 years ago we received a dart board for a wedding present. We did not have a dishwasher in our first apt. so we decided to play darts-loser washed dishes. Believe me, I got very good at darts very fast. Your dart playing beings back many fond memories as well as your new mommy posts. Enjoy it-it really does go very fast :(.

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Plum Pretty Sugar says · 02.07.14

Such a fun post! We love the little nickname you have for your dad and David.

xo

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Stephanie M says · 02.07.14

I love all of the “mom blog” posts you’ve been doing! I’ve been following your blog for years now, and it really does feel like a natural progression. I mean, you had a baby and you love talking about him. There’s nothing wrong with that! 🙂

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Whitney says · 02.07.14

I very much appreciate your mom postings. I had a baby 2 weeks after you and it is nice to hear from another new mom. Honesty is an admirable trait – and I very much appreciate that about you.

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Jen R says · 02.07.14

I personally don’t have a problem mixing the two….I do it quite often on my own blog (teacher and mom)….but I can understand that some people get turned off of it. So I actually started a new blog for just the family and personal aspects….would you consider that maybe?? I know it’s just one more thing to think about, BUT that one wouldn’t feel like stress to try and maintain. Then you could just have a little blurb on this one that says “if you want to see my posts about David, click here and here!” maybe…..just a thought 🙂
Jen
The Teacher’s Cauldron

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Kate says · 02.07.14

I love the new direction! I was definitely hesitant when you first announced your pregnancy, and thought I would be annoyed by a shift – but as it turns out, I enjoy the baby content the most! It’s an overall picture of a woman’s life: the balance between mom and still trying to keep your identity as a female.

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Cortni says · 02.08.14

I also love the blog and the direction you’ve taken, you gain some you lose some – I love hearing about your life and especially seeing and hearing about baby David. I think I might have baby fever as mine is 13 now! Keep up what you’re doing!!

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Leah Willis says · 02.08.14

I have followed your blog for almost 2 years and have loved it. I don’t even have kids yet, but I still love reading all the posts about David alongn with the beauty bloggers. If people don’t like the direction of your blog, they don’t have to read it. It’s your blog, do what makes you happy! There are plenty of us who still love reading every post!

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Holly says · 02.08.14

I love your blog! I’m fairly new to it, but I enjoy all of your posts! Your blog is always pleasant and upbeat and it’s fun to watch you transition into being a new mom! David is absolutely adorable! Haters gonna hate…just be you and do what makes you and your sweet family happy 🙂 PS love your hair and I am just a couple of weeks away from shortening mine!

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Monica McHugh says · 02.08.14

Hi! I have really enjoyed following your blog ever since I found you on Pinterest several months ago. I had a baby boy one day before you did on 12-12-13. I too think its weird how we measure their age in weeks and months. I have a personal blog, nothing fancy, just for me to keep up with all the memories and photos. I use it more for a scrapbook. It’s brownidbride.blogspot.com if you want to compare baby notes. David is just precious! Keep the posts coming about him! Congrats!

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Michelle says · 02.08.14

Hi Kate! I just wanted to chime in and say that I love everything about your blog. I totally agree with Leah’s comment above – this is YOUR blog to do with what you will. While I do enjoy your hair tutorials and beauty recommendations, I mostly read for your updates about David and your expressions of faith. You have lots of fans who are happy WITH you and FOR you – so just keep it up!

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Amy Sue says · 02.08.14

I love the new direction of the blog! I’m a new mom too, my baby is almost 8 months. I love the mixture of beauty and baby in the blog. And I think you are sweet to recommend other beauty blogs instead of being offended that others are disappointed with the new direction.

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h bauer says · 02.08.14

I love your blog, no matter what you are writing about!! I can use all of the hair styling advice I can get and I have kids and love to hear stories from other Mothers!! Just enjoy every moment with that little cutie!! You are blessed!! And we are blessed that you choose to share any of it with us!!

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Nicole Martin says · 02.08.14

I love your blog. I wouldn’t change a thing. You are proud of David love him and have every right to include him. You could talk about the clouds and I would continue to be a fan. Thanks for all your knowledge. Your blog makes me feel like we are friends, by the personal things. Just good wholesome stuff. <3

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Morgan says · 02.08.14

I love you blog, and I have loved reading about your cute little boy! Being a mom does change you completely, and there’s no reason why that shouldn’t spill over. I will look forward to your Wednesday blogs!!

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Kaelyn Hrabak says · 02.08.14

I adore your blog, and you should be able to take it in any direction you want to! You life has changed now, and your focus, joy and passion has shifted to your little bundle. I thoroughly your beauty posts as well! Good luck, and continue to kick your husband’s butt at darts (it’s the small victories that we can savor lol)!

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ML says · 02.08.14

I love your blog and like many others feel that you should write about what you like. But I am not going to lie I do miss your outfit posts! Love your style and it was nice to your daily outfits!! Other than that keep doing what your doing!

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Wendy Gardner says · 02.08.14

I agree

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Wendy Gardner says · 02.08.14

I agree

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Mrs.Araujo says · 02.08.14

your blog makes me happy…. no matter what direction you go! David is awesome! eNJOY IT i cant wait to read more!!!

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Camille says · 02.08.14

I just learned of your blog recently and love the hair tutorials. But please, please, please do not put any burden on yourself to do more here now that you are a new mom. Yes, find a balance, but if that balance is 90% with family and 10% blogging for a while (or years) then go with that. You will never regret the time spent with your family. God bless.

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JC Overfield says · 02.08.14

I love your blog for your writing. Regardless of what you are writing about. Hearing about David stories and watching beauty videos are great and I am always excited when a new hair style video is posted. I also love the product reviews you post. Write what comes to you, at the time that is new mama info. I love it and will continue to follow!

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Jen says · 02.08.14

Being a mom myself, I love hearing about your beautiful baby boy. It is neat to hear how other mom’s handle things, even though I have an almost 6 year old (YIKES) and 3 1/2 year old it is still fun to hear about baby stuff. I miss the baby stage so much. Keep up the great work

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Lauren says · 02.08.14

I started reading your blog before David, and I have enjoyed it before and after he was born. I think your blog past and present is a-okay. Why wouldn’t your blog have a good amount of posts on David? You are a talented writer and I find that anything you write about is going to be entertaining because of how you write it. I applaud you for how hard you have worked maintaining your blog with a new baby. You do you, Kate!

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Lauren says · 02.08.14

I started reading your blog before David, and I have enjoyed it before and after he was born. I think your blog past and present is a-okay. Why wouldn’t your blog have a good amount of posts on David? You are a talented writer and I find that anything you write about is going to be entertaining because of how you write it. I applaud you for how hard you have worked maintaining your blog with a new baby. You do you, Kate!

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midwesternbelle.com says · 02.09.14

I’m pretty awful at anything athletic and used to losing! I think it builds character 🙂

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Georgia Fulenwider says · 02.09.14

Everything about life changes when you become a mom, totally understandable! I love the direction your blog has taken and I love hearing about David as well as the beauty stuff! I applaud you for the balancing act, keep up the good work and enjoy that sweet baby of yours!!!

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Grace Lambdin says · 02.09.14

Just wanted you to know that I LOVE your posts about just life! The baby, your family, what God has done in your life, those are the precious things! Just wanted u to know that! 🙂 My family and I LOVE baby’s there’s nothing better! =)

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Griggs says · 02.09.14

There are plenty of people, like me, who love what you’ve done with your blog since your baby was born. I think it’s a nice mix of personal and professional. Keep it up and don’t worry about the small portion of people who might not love it. I guarantee most do!

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Sarah says · 02.09.14

Sorry to hear you’re at a dilemma regarding life vs. beauty blog. I hope your mentioned readers weren’t rude…
I on the other hand, have enjoyed reading your blog pre-baby, during pregnancy and especially now!
Do what is right for you and don’t let others bring your down.

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patricia says · 02.09.14

So, you have a ton of readers, and a ton of comments on this blog, so you may not even read this, but…. As a mom of (now) teenagers, you will want to have the stories about David for your personal history and remembrance. They are priceless. Your readers will adjust. I like the combo idea, but you should do what you want for your own purposes. I figure if people don’t wanna read about my kids, they can scroll on…. but then I don’t make money by blogging, so…take that for what it’s worth. I love the David stories, and hearing about how you are transitioning. We have all been there.

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Angela Moore says · 02.09.14

I’ve blogged for years….though my blog isn’t nearly as wide read as yours. I also, never had a niche, in the blog world, but always remember this is YOUR blog. Readers will come and go, just stay true to yourself and the season of life you’re in. As a mom of a toddler I’d love to read your perspective of how your wardrobe has changed, how your hair care has changed, how your make up routine has changed. Becoming a Mom changes your perspective and your priorities…embrace it, continue to be authentic, and your blog will remain popular and profitable for you! Just a word of encouragement 🙂

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Kate says · 02.09.14

The photos with you and the baby are beautiful. Keep doing the thinks you do for you and your family.

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Katherine Nicole says · 02.10.14

I love all of your posts–personal, beauty, hair, etc! I enjoyed it before you were a mom and i’m still enjoying it…I love seeing your precious pictures of David and hearing how everything in your life is going. Don’t listen to the negative comments, just continue doing what makes you happy 🙂

xo,
Katherine Nicole

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Brittany Myers says · 02.10.14

Kate I’ve been a fan of yours for quite some time. I first discovered your tutorials on YouTube then I started reading your blog back when you were pregnant. I love the fact that you post about your daily life and I feel like you shouldn’t have to change what you’re posting to please anyone. Your son is beautiful by the way!

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Kelly (She Wears a Red Sox Cap) says · 02.10.14

I don’t think I’m alone in thinking that most people enjoy blogs more when we get to know the blogger and hear about your daily life 🙂 I might be a little biased because I have a 3 week old and I enjoy reading your baby posts!

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Sarah Carey says · 02.10.14

My comment is slightly different, I suspect. I am someone who does not love “the baby stuff,” but I cannot imagine ever writing an email to you about it! My lack of interest has nothing to do with you; I am just not interested in websites that are personal journals as a general rule. A touch of news here and there is fine, of course, but otherwise they are simply not my style. You seem darling & delightful & lovely; I just do not actually know you! I am not personally disappointed in the direction of your site over the past many months because content creators are always welcome to write whatever they like, and I can choose to read or not read. When websites I enjoy become more personal, I suspect that my lack of interest, and therefore diminished visits to the site, are more than compensated for by new visits from people who ARE interested in personal online journals. All that being said, I comment now, which I rarely do and now do only because you address the business aspect directly on your site, to say that I like your Wednesday idea, and I will likely visit your site more frequently because you are making that change clear. Cheers!

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JenJen says · 02.10.14

I was a bit surprised when I read that people had emailed you that they didn’t like the direction of the blog. I know my personality is so not confrontational- keep the boat from rocking! but I would have never thought to send an email . This is the season you are in and I would much rather read heart felt posts than “created” posts to meet a demand. You are pleasing a lot of your readers and not some and that would be true if you only did beauty and fashion posts you would have readers begging for posts about David. Can’t please everyone so just focus on pleasing the person that you are around the most- you!

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Jamie Preston says · 02.10.14

I love your blog just the way it is! I had my second daughter a week after your baby boy was born so can totally relate to your life! I love the mix of your personal life plus the makeup/hair aspect. The personal stuff is what makes your blog so unique, I’m so glad I found it! 🙂

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Jamie Preston says · 02.10.14

I love your blog just the way it is! I had my second daughter a week after your baby boy was born so can totally relate to your life! I love the mix of your personal life plus the makeup/hair aspect. The personal stuff is what makes your blog so unique, I’m so glad I found it! 🙂

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Jamie M says · 02.10.14

I appreciate the direction of your blog. I know some may not want to read/see about motherhood, marriage, etc. but I for one am encouraged in seeing how your beauty tips and hair tips are applicable in real-life, not in a photo shoot staged way. I am glad you are working toward a more defined space and outline/plan for your beauty aspects and personal aspects. Wishing you luck with enjoying your family more and balancing the blog also!

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paavei says · 02.10.14

I will stick around! I really enjoy reading your blog and I really don`t mind the new direction of your blog. Personally, I think it is wonderful you let us have a peek in your personal life. Please keep up the blogging whenever you have time and good luck with finding the right balance!

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Lori says · 02.10.14

Oh my! Don’t worry what other people think. Write what you want! It’s ok to take time away from your blog. Enjoy your little guy, take time for yourself. They are only little once and you will have more time later.

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KDCHairStore.com says · 02.10.14

WOW, this is GReat. I have never blogged before. This is my first blog. I think that it is great that you explore both worlds. Being a mom is the best thing in life and being a woman is next in line. So, do you!!!! Whenever you feel like blogging then blog. Keep this FUn. This should not become the focus of your life. HAPPINESS is the goal.
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leah says · 02.10.14

Hey, it’s your blog; do your thing! I’m not a mom but I have been reading your blog for years and I’m not going to stop because you write about that cute kid of yours!

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Ashley Defenderfer says · 02.10.14

I can’t believe people have been complaining! That’s ridiculous. Your blog is perfect 🙂

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Ashley Defenderfer says · 02.10.14

I can’t believe people have been complaining! That’s ridiculous. Your blog is perfect 🙂

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Steph L says · 02.10.14

I enjoy your blog with a mix of beauty and baby! I am scheduled for a c-section in 8 days to be exact. I have come to enjoy your blog even more since the birth of your son. I have loved reading and learning about new beauty and hair products from your blog and how you incorporate both into your life!

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TashiaInKC says · 02.10.14

I love your blog, I originally found it looking for hair tutorials for idea’s to do my daughters hair for a dance. I thought that your tutorials on makeup were great also and so I subscribed! (which I’ve never done before)

I think you do a great job mixing the personal and beauty – although lately it has been more about that baby – but that’s to be expected! I know when I write, I like to write about what I am passionate about – and you are a new mom who is so in love with her son and wants to write about him, and all the new things that come with being a mom. Your life has changed monumentally and personally I have loved reading about your experiences. My children are 15 and 12 (almost 13) and reading your posts bring me back to that time when they were brand new! Your blog is interesting and funny and give us a little glimpse into your life. I love the beauty stuff too, so keep that coming also! But please don’t feel pressured to change on account of your readers…

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Morgan Butts says · 02.11.14

I love your blog! I’m no where even close to starting a family (still in college and unmarried) but I still enjoy reading posts and seeing pictures of David…everyone can see how adorable he is and how much in love you are with him. I would much rather see pictures and read stories about him than nothing at all! Although, I do still loooove your beauty related posts as well…but what girl doesn’t?

Keep doing your thing!
God BLESS!
Morgan

theblessedbelle14.blogspot.com

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